I’m going to give you what I believe to be the top 3 reasons why artists people please, maybe you’ll hear something familiar in one of them and then I’m going to talk about my tips and ways that you can stop people pleasing from today onwards.
And also my 2 step cardinal rule for people pleasers when it comes to making any decision.
You Are Following Someone Else’s Idea Of Success
You Are Hyper Worried About What Everyone Else Thinks
You Think You Won’t Have Any Other Opportunities
How do we as Artists stop doing this?
1. Watch and Listen to your decisions, is there any element of people pleasing?
2. Get Specific about who and why you are pleasing mostly
3. Does this fit your vision?
“Your clear vision of success is where the head meets the heart.” – Jo
3 Step – Cardinal Rule for People Pleasers
If you think you might be people pleasing a lot, I have a rule where I tell my clients “donot to make any decision on the spot.” Take the next 24-48 hrs to decide….HOWEVER
In that 24-48 hours lay it out in a way that FEAR doesn’t come into it. “I don’t have enough money, I don’t have enough time & What if it doesn’t work”…those are all FEAR based. I want this decision to come from a place of abundance not lack.