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November 29, 2021
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There is a difference between things that matter and things that you care about TOO much!
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Alright everyone I”m just going to give you my straight up unedited self today, because there are a lot of you who just simply care too much! There I said it! You care too much about your numbers, your validation, what other people think, what you look like, who likes you, who pays attention to you, what everyone else is doing, what opportunities everyone else is getting, what shows they are playing, how many streams they have, how many stream you have, how many followers you have! And I’m here today to say “WHO FUCKING CARES my friends!” “Who Cares”.
You may be spending way too much time caring about things that truly don’t matter at the end of the day.
** Now hold it up for a second because people are going to hear me say that and say “Yeah well, it DOES matter if I have streams, because radio looks at those, or promoters look at those..it does matter if I have great shows, because that means that my value is going up and it does matter if people are paying attention because I need fans!
Yes it does matter, but if you are simply reacting to those things constantly and mostly negative feelings surrounding all of those things all of the time, then it matters WAY too much to you and you care too much!
So I want you to be able to begin to draw a line between the meaning of those things. Yes they matter! But obsessing TOO much, caring TOO much to the point of frustration and depression is not the answer! And some of us tend to become way too clouded by the thought process to constantly compete, win, get, and achieve.So how do you draw that line? How do you focus on deliverables and yet let it go when things aren’t perfect or going well?
That’s really coaching 101 – that’s what I do, I help people have goals, big goals, that have measurables and yet still leave room for the unexpected so you’re not hyper focused and have blinders on but I also help you learn so much about yourself that you can weather the roller coaster ride much easier, you can care less and still achieve like a badass.
That roller coaster ride is you caring way too much about probably the small things. It’s simply what you think about what is happening.
So what can be done about that?
You can think differently about what is happening.Good intentions coupled with super positive emotions is really what the law of attraction is, when people talk about the law of attraction what they mean is what you’re thinking about as the goal and what you FEEL about it as the magnet that brings that goal to you!
Man I had a week to think about this, and sometimes, myself included we just over complicate everything so much.
So here is how you simplify any situation that you are caring too much about right now.
Instead of saying “man I’m just so upset because this is going right!” you say
“Man this is going right and I can think any which way I want about it!”
People will convincingly tell me that they can’t possibly think any other way about it. As though some little thought robot is in their telling them what to think, but that’s you, that’s all you, you can think whatever you want about anything you want. It’s just that you may currently believe that your own thoughts are out of your control for some reason. That little liar inside of you is VERY convincing sometimes. But it’s basically full of shit, it’s a liar, I promise you it’s lying.
You can have zero dollars in the bank today and feel hopeless, desperate and depressed and you can have zero dollars in the bank tomorrow and decide that you are going to dig really deep and find some hope and some faith, and get to work on getting out of that place.That’s what this podcast and my coaching is all about…!