Episode #146 – Becoming YOU

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I talk at great depth with my coachees about becoming the person you need to become to achieve your dreams.
This process involves becoming the version of YOU that is capable of those things.
Now you already are that person, but you may be indulging in behaviours that are programmed from old thoughts, beliefs and habits that are getting in the way.

So today I want to give you my take on “Becoming You” and what I mean by that and why it’s a huge part of the journey. 

A lot of the time when I talk to an artist about what they want to achieve those things are easy for them to dream.

A big fan base, a hit song, a certain amount of income, a healthy body and mind, and a secure future for their kids, the list goes on.

Ultimately we pretty much know what we want to achieve in life. And most of the time we can imagine that life.We can visualize a day in that life.
What your house looks like, even what you feel like in that house.
Maybe you’re hosting a get together because you have the space and the budget to do that.

Maybe you’re standing in the kitchen of your dreams or on that acreage or driving that car you’ve always wanted and that’s something that comes fairly easily is that ability to put yourself in that place even in that feeling and that’s a powerful exercise in itself.

But there is another step that is often a little harder that it perhaps the most important step and that is not only what are you doing and how you feel but who are YOU in that environment in that moment in that world.

Getting your desired results involved fully becoming the YOU that can get there.

Who is that person? Who is the version of YOU that is that person who has been able to achieve those things?

I have my clients do these exercises and talk about this regularly.

So as you go into 2022 and it’s getting closer and closer to that time, and you start setting goals to achieve and visualizing those goals.

You need to take that one step further and ask yourself a whole bunch of questions surrounding the one question “Who Do I Need to Become To Achieve These Goals.”

Let’s do some examples: By the way there is no end to the depth at which you can explore this question. Keep asking yourself until this question is answered in detail.

Do this exercise with me now…I’m going to walk through an example and I want you to do your own. 

Goal: To Make $100K in Music in 2022

Why: Because that would bring me full-time status, or income, that would bring me stability in 2022 and allow me to continue the journey and provide for my family.

Visual: What is the visual of you making $100k in 2022 – $8500 month? Do you feel secure and happy, do you have a little bit left over for that weekend away, maybe you’ve paid your car loan off, and you visualise yourself walking into the bank to make that payment in full. What is that visual?

Feeling: How do you feel in that moment? Secure! Proud, you can achieve whatever you set out to. Strong, capable.

Becoming The You That Achieved That: 

I want you to think of this person as the version of you that you NEED to become in order to achieve this goal.

Q1: What daily activities do you need to start doing to be that person?

Q2: What weekly activities do you need to start doing to be that person?

Q3: What daily activities do you need to STOP doing to be that person?

Q4: What weekly activities do you need to STOP doing to be that person?

Q5: What do you need to believe about yourself to achieve this?

Q6: What do you need to STOP believing about yourself to achieve this?

Q7: What does this person think about others who helped them achieve this?

Q8: What does this person want others to think about them?

Q9: What does this person help others do to achieve their goals?

Okay so there are so many more questions! But start here and answer these in detail.

If you want to chat about this goal with me come and find and book a free discovery call with me to discuss this goal further.

Most of the time people don’t achieve their goals because they believe more in the goal than they do in their ability to achieve it.

“Becoming You, the version of YOU that can and will achieve this goal is the KEY!”

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